Unless you taper the mast severely, which probably wouldn't work with stays, the "airfoil" near the top of a triangular sail will be awful. A really big lump up front, and a short, thin section in its wake. Furthermore, if you try to get an elliptical lift distribution, either the rest of the sail will be loafing or that skinny area up top will be stalled. On a triangular wing, the pointy tips will experience an upwash, increasing the angle of attack and making them stall. I suppose a triangular sail that's set right will have a fair amount of twist and may be able to evade this particular problem. A square topped sail wouldn't have to twist as much, and could have something like an elliptical lift distribution. Plus, the mast could be a little shorter and have less windage. I admit I don't know just how they rig those square tops. Presumably not quite like a gaff rig.
Seems to me that if a cruiser wants to make things simpler, a free standing rig makes a lot of sense, particularly when we can make one out of carbon fiber. You could say that would be more expensive, but is it more expensive than all the hardware and stainless wire that aren't needed any more? If there's some gadget to grab the halyard and hold it, then the mast can be skinnier still, because it doesn't have to withstand both halyard tension and the downhaul force on the sail. I understand that there ARE such gadgets, I just don't know how they work.
Seems to me that if a cruiser wants to make things simpler, a free standing rig makes a lot of sense, particularly when we can make one out of carbon fiber. You could say that would be more expensive, but is it more expensive than all the hardware and stainless wire that aren't needed any more? If there's some gadget to grab the halyard and hold it, then the mast can be skinnier still, because it doesn't have to withstand both halyard tension and the downhaul force on the sail. I understand that there ARE such gadgets, I just don't know how they work.