Stern heavy and bow drop? Does that make intuitive sense to you?
3” too deep, if valid, means the bottom of the engine is creating lotsa drag and forcing the bow down
Consider, for a moment, how a trim tab functions. The bow lifts, the tabs drop down and act like a brake and the bow comes down. An engine too deep is like the tab being down full time.
In order to validate the engine is too deep, take the boat in a turn hard and see if the engines cav when you throttle up; this doesn’t mean turn hard wide open. If they cav, bringing them up will make it worse. A large whirlpool is not the same as a blowout, to be clearer.