...The change I am adding is to have 2 flaps on the main foil with each one controlled individually according to the amount of side slip detected by the wand, which has a keeled paddle on the tip to keep it tracking straight even when heeled. The wand will be allowed to rotate about 20 degrees to the left and right whilst also doing the 90 degrees forward-backward movement with 45 degrees the designed trim height angle. The two flaps have +/- 4 degrees, are full span and are about 1/3 chord.
If the wand is deflected to windward then the flaps will try to roll the boat to windward and visa-versa, the idea being to tune it to maintain balance between the sail force and the weight of the boat....
I don't think your basic question has been addressed in the discussion. What you're trying to do is feed back leeway angle to rolling moment, in addition to feeding back height to vertical lift. You're looking at the steady-state trim of the boat, but I think you need to be considering other time-scales in the dynamics.
In the steady state, when the boat is heeled to windward, there is not necessarily any rolling moment required from the foil. The crew weight offsets the heeling moment from the rig, and the leeway is zero so the lift from the foils is directed up the strut and there's no rolling moment from the foils about the centerline of the boat. The flap deflection would be equal on both sides of the foil for this case, and the rolling moment would be zero. You need to consider the dynamics of the boat about this equlibrium condition.
When a gust hits or the sail is trimmed in a bit, there will be an increase in side force and an increase in leeway. There will also be an increase in heeling moment. Leeway feedback would apply a rolling moment to oppose the change in heeling moment. How much leeway develops for a given side force will depend on how high the boat is flying. If it is flying high, more leeway will be experienced and there will be more rolling moment. Is this what you want to have happen? If not, you could change the gearing in the leeway feedback such that the gain between the wand and differential flap deflection is reduced when the boat is flying high, thus compensating for the increased leeway such that the product of the gain times leeway is approximately constant as the flying height varies. You might be able to get this effect by how you arrange the yaw axis of the wand - it wouldn't have to be vertical, for example.
Another factor to consider is the longitudinal position of the wand and the leeway at that location vs the leeway at the center of gravity or the foil. When you're turning, the bow of the boat will be moving sideways, generating a local leeway angle there that is different from the leeway further back. this will couple yaw rate with rolling moment through your feedback system. It's common practice to mount the wand forward so as to generate phase lead with respect to the oncoming waves. This allows the foil to increase its lift before the crest reaches the middle of the hull. However, the coupling between yaw rate and leeway at the wand's location will mean that your feedback will cause the boat to roll to the outside of a rapid turn. This is probably an undesirable situation.
If the wand were mounted at the stern, the coupling would be reversed in sign, rolling the boat to the inside of a rapid turn. But then the heave response would be reacting the the wave that just passed, instead of the wave that is approaching. So you might want to consider two separate wands - one at the bow for heave and one at the stern for leeway. This would let you optimize the design and linkages for each purpose. Another option might be to mechanically add a linkage from the tiller to couple rudder movement to differential flap movement. The effect would be similar to a really deep rudder that has a very low center of effort, producing both a yawing moment and a rolling moment. This might overcome the leeway feedback in a turn, while leaving the leeway feedback to operate as desired in straight-line sailing.
There are fast dynamics vs slow dynamics to consider. Do you want the boat to react to short, quick changes in leeway, or to longer term adjustments?
Then there's the performance aspect. Heeling to windward makes sense when flying high, because you can reduce the wetted area of the strut and without leeway, there's no induced drag penalty from reduced span to counter the side force. This presupposes the horizontal foil is sized to provide both the vertical lift and the side force. Providing the side force from the horizontal foil isn't difficult if it only takes a 15 deg heel angle to provide the necessary side force. You get 26% of the weight in side force for less than a 4% increase in lift on the horizontal wing, which sounds like a pretty good tradeoff. But the optimum leeway angle may not be zero.
If you carried some side force on the strut, the optimum lift distribution on the wing will be discontinuous. It will have a step change in lift at the strut so as to maintain a constant downwash along the span, even in the presence of the wake from the strut. Your differential flap deflection could help in getting just the right amount of lift on each half of the foil. By spreading the vertical lift and side force over the span of both the foil and the strut, it may be possible to reduce the induced drag below what would be experienced with lifting with just the wing alone. This might make it worth the wetted area of the strut and change your optimum flying height and heel angle.
You may want to have a manual input to the differential flap deflection so the pilot can set the trim split between the flaps and then use body weight to balance the boat with the resultant rolling moment.