If I haven't made a mistake, the dynamic pressure of 20 knot wind is around 1.35 pounds per square foot. Assuming the drag coefficient of the sail going downwind is 1, that's the pressure on the sail. If the sail is lifting, the lift coefficient could probably get significantly higher. Maybe in the range of 1.5 to 2, if we can judge by airfoils. So, if we're pessimistic, we might see 2.7 psf. This increased force might be directed mostly forward on a broad reach. I think that, closer to the wind, that pressure on the sail would heel the boat and relieve the pressure. If it was me, going on intuition, I'd at least double that in case it gusts to around 28 knots. I'm assuming here that the mast breaks before it goes end over end.
Don't forget that there is also a bending load putting one side of the mast in compression, even if the partners are very gentle.
BTW, you should be really sure it's 6061 T6. 6063 T5, for instance, would be much weaker.
The tubing will be significantly more expensive than the lumber,* I think, but you won't have to pick through it as much. Does Garden tell us what wood species he's using? Real Douglas fir is significantly stronger than some other species, though it's a bit denser. Might be a good choice for a hollow mast or one that is just a little smaller. ANC-18, Design of Wood Aircraft Structures, has some useful info about the strength and stiffness of different species of wood. Some of the other info may be useful too. For instance, standards for a good scarph. Maybe a little stricter than we need for boats. I think there may be relevant info in ANC-19 as well. Then again, H.H. Payson was known to use a suitable tree for a mast. Ideally, you want tight, straight grain and no knots. The mast on the Bolger Brick I bought had at least one small knot, but it held together.
*Maybe not if you are buying 17 foot long, aircraft grade sitka spruce boards. Hmmmm..do you know anyone who restores old small airplanes? They may have,mfor instance, old wing spars that were damaged in one area but have good wood remaining. Reclaimed wood may have less knots without being outrageously expensive. . A company not far for m me is selling old douglas fir gym bench boards.